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[GaTmAn]

my relationship is dead....what do i do?

at the minute im in a loveless relationship, you all seen the other day when i posted that thread about how me and my girlfriend were gona split, well now i think its unavoidable but i dont want to.
atm its bad tho because she's making it, she says i blame everything on her but i dont mean to, its just i seem to be the only one trying, like when i ring her, it used to be "oh hi how are you" now its "hello" in annoyed voice... which just screams out "i dont want to talk to you anymore" but sometimes she is all hey how are you, so i get happy again then the next day shes the bitch again....

last night we went out and she told me "a good couple can spend the night with other people and meet up later on to talk" or some shit she read in hello magazine, which was very blatently sayin, see ya later. then i sed yeah go have some alone time and she went dancing and then i was left alone coz my mates were doing something, so then i had to feel like a prick walking up to her on the dancefloor and saying "can i dance with you", should i have to fucking ask?!?!, she should be dancing with me, well she should want to:(

anyways, heres another example, today were on dinner together (we work at the same place, different deps), so we both got dinner at the same time, so i rang her and said "what are you doing for ur dinner, wana spend it togeva" and she replied with "errr...i spose u cud sit with me if ur not weird with my friend james" who apparently she ALWAYS has dinner with even tho she met him a week mayb 2 ago, and im like soo im secondary in your plans for dinner to a guy you just met....very caring of you...

but then sometimes shes great, anyways i dont know if ANY of that makes sense, becuase im just rambling, but err....what do i do?

do i stay on and hope it gets good again, becuase i do love her even tho for the past month she seems to not love me, and she is a great girl whos dead talented at drawing and stuff which i love about her, so im confuzzled, please someone help..

[chappy]

She shouldn't be puttin' her friends in front of you, that ain't right, looks like she's fuckin' with you, cuz one minute she's being shitty with you, and the next she can be great. I dunno... maybe she just wants to hold on to you for the sake of it.

If your doin' your best and she's throwin' back in your face, then fuck her, she don't appreciate you.

[Kut~Thróat]

She shouldn't be puttin' her friends in front of you, that ain't right,
yea but thats kind of hypocriticle coz all the lads i know say friends come before girls. its a loyalty thing, so thats like its ok for us but nt for them

edit:

an gat.. i know u dont wana hear it but maybe u think think about just lettin go

[Lady_Sway]

She shouldn't be puttin' her friends in front of you, that ain't right, looks like she's fuckin' with you, cuz one minute she's being shitty with you, and the next she can be great. I dunno... maybe she just wants to hold on to you for the sake of it.

If your doin' your best and she's throwin' back in your face, then fuck her, she don't appreciate you.

^^word
but friends do come before guys, well...lifelong friends ya no the ones who always been there, but the dude she met bout a week or two ago shouldnt be coming before you.
i agree with chappy she does seem to be holding onto you for the sake of it to be honest. and she sounds like one those mess around bitches, which even i cant stand so i feel sorry for the guys who have to put up with them :rolleyes:
I would seriously think about endin the relansionship or just let her come to you, dont bother phonin if shes gon be like that, she'll just think shes in charge, and take advantage ya no.
anyways hope this helps :D

[Fayt]

yeah no doubt dont let her mess wit yah like that, but its all you playa do what you thinks best, thats tha best way to figure out somthing

[chappy]

yea but thats kind of hypocriticle coz all the lads i know say friends come before girls. its a loyalty thing, so thats like its ok for us but nt for them

I suppose it's different for different situations...

[$lim$hady]

aww gat :(
You should tell all of this to her and tell her you really really want to make it work. But if she doesn't change some things or you still don't feel great about your relationship, I think you should end it.

[Jc McVeL]

you are a saint man =(
same shit right here....oh fuck i hate myself

[blankname]

so no one picked up shes cheating...

[GaTmAn]

lol belive me i have,

i dont think its cheating yet,

i think shes in the flirty-move onto something else-stage

and shes going "bowling" next weekend, for sum party which i aint invited to for no reason at all...

yeah belive me its crossing my mind, but last night she was all i love you and bolox,

grrr

[Lady_Sway]

gat seriously man....leave her sorry ass....

[Elite-E]

wat she said ^^^

[blankname]

yeah belive me its crossing my mind, but last night she was all i love you and bolox,

yeah im not tryin to be harsh man, but thats guilt right there.

also its always easier to tell people what to do then actually doing it. so it comes down to you. is it worth putting effort into a dieing relationship, or do you just cut it off?

[mattSMD]

from what ive read, you should do what stan did

[Kut~Thróat]

from what ive read, you should do what stan did
join this site under the name tylenol rabbit?

[Lady_Sway]

join this site under the name tylenol rabbit?


lmao...

[Sabertooth Tiger]

join this site under the name tylenol rabbit?
Roflmfao

[juststacisus]

Dont argue!
Wrong section and your ruining poor gatmans thread :mad:

Anywaayyy

Maybe working with her and seeing her outside of work is too much?

I think you need to talk to her, ask her straight what the fucks goin on and what she wants.

[GaTmAn]

I ASKED HER STRAIGHT

took some getting out of her, but she sed she just missed her friends, coz all of em have fucked off, so its jst me and her atm, so i think we got a bit close,

she sed she dont wana end it, and nothings goin on, but i dont know how long it will last...

hopefully were ok now

[CPVsin sucker]

dude ive bin in the situation that ur girls in....and our relationship did end, i think u do need 2 give er some space, and then make it extream wen u do c each other, ya no, spice it up a bit....?make sure u trust er tho, if the trust is gone than the love is 2......give er tyme and space and just do ya thang, make er feel spetial as fuck, that always works....
good luck
xx

[CPVsin sucker]

oh yea, i no im only 15 and shizz but there ya go!
i just love 2 love i gues

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[GaTmAn]

sooo,

give her time and space but make her feel special,

suggestions on making sum1 feel special by not seeing them

[Lady_Sway]

naw she means make it special when u DO see her :)

[CPVsin sucker]

word, i did
but now that u mention it, how can u not know that, i swear thats importad in a distnce relationship ????u could always send her a little sumthing, maybe something that reminds u both of ur relationship or a nice moment, call her, write 4 her, u rhyme dont ya?!?!

[GaTmAn]

lol

it aint a distance relationship...

i aint in the army..............yet

[$lim$hady]

^ Noob Patrol is the army, doofus.
and
hopefully were ok now
yay :)

[TheFakeSlimShady]

Good Luck man, I fel sorry for you, seems like you really love her.

[CPVsin sucker]

sorry man, but im sure ita work out, even if u end up splitting, it myte just happen coz u had 2 make room 4 anotha gal...u neva no

[Demise]

Time and space while making her feel special = sayin its ok to see other people

My advice is make her feel special (agreein wit Sway) while you are there so that she knows how good she has it. When I 1st read it it sounded like she was gettin bored with the relationship which sucks but it happens all the time. If thats not the case and it really is about her friends and all that then try to show her that it "just being you and her" is all she needs. Dont smother her, but show her that she got you to fall back on

And that friend guy James... beat his ass

[GaTmAn]

lmfao

i think hes innocent....shall i do it anyway?

[Lady_Sway]

i would...lol

[Demise]

Yes.... yes you should

[Dane~Jeruz™]

lmfao

i think hes innocent....shall i do it anyway?


No...

U beat her mates ass..shell be mad as fuck at you for bein jealous n shit

N then ya relationship will deff end.. n unless uw antin that to happen...dotn be stupid