what should i do?

[lyrically insane]

ok for the last few weeks i have got to know a very nice girl and become very good friends. the problem is she lives over an hour away and i havent met her yet. the other part of the problem is that there is a girl that i also like but she lives 3 minutes away from me... i am not going out with any of them at the moment but i dont like hurting people and know that if i told the girl i like from an hour away she would cry alot...this girl from 3 minutes away is more sexual attracted i have seen her but i havent even met the girl from an hour away...

i really dont know what to do and everything is moving fast...so i have told the girl from an hour away i cant see it working because of the distance but she keeps talking of different ways around it... i cant tell her i dont like her because i really do. and i know if i meet this girl from 3 minutes away we will end up fucking in the first 5 mins because we are so sexually attracted :S

i need some advice

[$lim$hady]

well it seems like you're more sexually attracted to the 3-min girl (lol don't know what else to call her) than anything else, and it seems like you're more emotionally attracted to the long-distance girl.
Long distance relationships CAN work out, but only if you have your whole heart into it, which you don't seem to. Until/unless you do I really don't recommend starting one because it will only end in the girl being hurt.
It's a tough call, but like I said, don't start a long distance relationship unless you're 200% commited to it.

[lyrically insane]

yes i have told her about it not working out cus of the long distance thing but couldnt bring myself to telling her about the "3 min girl" lol afterall i know we were real close but we wasnt going out and we never even had met... i will keep being her good friend and maybe i will realise i have been a complete prick and want to put my whole heart into it and making a go of it... thanks

[LyRiKhAl]

kill her.

oh ffs stfu. wtf do u think this is, a drop in advice centre?

[lyrically insane]

well done one more post for u now fuckl off unless ur giving advice

[LyRiKhAl]

well done one more post for u now fuckl off unless ur giving advice
nuthin in the rules that says i cant post unless im giving advice, so FUCK you :)

[shastas_mum123]

i think that you have to decide what kind of relationship you want. If you want a stable, real relationship that may last for a long time, you should go with the 'hour away girl'. but, if you just want to get some, you should go with the '3 minute girl'. And an hour away really isnt that far... so its nopt really a long ditance relationship... just farther then your neighbor. Also the '3 minute girl' and you probably live to close to each other. you would see each other all the time and that would end inh you getting bored, her too, and then you would have hurt the 'hour away girl' for nothing...

[CPVsin sucker]

@lyrikhal just STFU! u pissin me of 4 real now!
shes ryte. my man lives 2days away but its kool and like $lim$hady sed it does work wen u put al u can into it. from what ive seen i dont think that u really want the "hour girl" other wise u would have gone for it already, i think that ur using the fact that she lives far away as a subconcius excuse.
anyways good luck wit the situation and with wicheva girl u get with

[LyRiKhAl]

who cares? stfu ure a nobody.I will post wot i want.

[Elite-E]

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[LyRiKhAl]

hack them elite

[lyrically insane]

igoring the post above....... yes i woke up and realised i had made a big mistake and i do want a long term relationship with the one hour girl..... only problem now is getting her to forgive me... she cried when i told her her mate sed her mom sat there wiping her tears... i felt like killing myself i couldnt believe i was so harsh to upset her that much.... thanks for all advice and this convo can be shut now......

[CPVsin sucker]

whooop
xx

[Shane0001]

m8 it could b nuffin u ent even met her yet

[MystaMic]

Keep em' both on the burner...2 heads are better than one...